30 --Human Interactions--
My 30th post. OMFG! I've done it! Look acw, u said i wont get passed my 1st week... look wat i've achieved? Its my 30th post~!!! Wooootttt!!!!! If one persevere, he/she can do it! It doesnt matter what u say ya'know, wats important is wat i've decided to do! hee hee!
Anyway, a new found friend, his name is Latief from Indo. I have just spent the whole night crapping with him about life. And i chanced upon the topic on human interaction topic.
You see, what i told him is... that people in this world are making use of each other. Alot of people cant seem to sponge this idea into their head. They choose to use the words.. "care", "concern" "love" etc etc. to cover up for it. U c, i will give a scenario...
Lets use relationship 1st as an example. Lets say i am in a relationship with this gal. Her use to me is... that perhaps she's good in sex, which gives me physical pleasure. She's pretty, which gives me visual pleasure and a lot of pride cuz she can boost my social standing among the society. She makes me feel alive and to gauge how much i'm worth and she boost my ego and also, she keeps me away from loneliness. I wont say it aint much the same if commented the other way round except for other few minor differences.
Now, in the above scenario, i tell u wheres the care, concern and love. U care for her because u need her for sexual, mental and spiritual relief, u care to prevent her from leaving u. U show concern for the same cause. Love? well, u love her for giving u all the pleasures. Well, thats about it. We make use of one another, dont we? Its only a matter of whether we agree on the terms thats set upon or not. To walk the path of life together or not. If yes, then the couple stay together, if no, they simply spilt until they find others which has better cause and use to their life.
Now... for friendship... do i need to say more? The above example is more than ample to describe what i may be writing next. The only difference now is that there is probably no sexual relationship involved here. But nowadays, even frens have that kinda relationship. Yea, the world is getting crazy as u grow up. People aint what it seems from what we've read and meet since college. =/ Even decent friends turn to absurd beginnings. Oh well, like Latief always says.. "i try my best" or... "thats life" As for me, i do beg to differ. We can change it and shape it to our desire if we try enough. That is, if we even try at all.
Yea, whatever.
"There is a tavern in town
And there my dear love sits him down
And drinks his wine mid' laughter free
And never, NEVER thinks of me
Fare thee well, for must leave thee
Do not let this parting grieve thee
And remember that the best of friend must part"
Anyway, a new found friend, his name is Latief from Indo. I have just spent the whole night crapping with him about life. And i chanced upon the topic on human interaction topic.
You see, what i told him is... that people in this world are making use of each other. Alot of people cant seem to sponge this idea into their head. They choose to use the words.. "care", "concern" "love" etc etc. to cover up for it. U c, i will give a scenario...
Lets use relationship 1st as an example. Lets say i am in a relationship with this gal. Her use to me is... that perhaps she's good in sex, which gives me physical pleasure. She's pretty, which gives me visual pleasure and a lot of pride cuz she can boost my social standing among the society. She makes me feel alive and to gauge how much i'm worth and she boost my ego and also, she keeps me away from loneliness. I wont say it aint much the same if commented the other way round except for other few minor differences.
Now, in the above scenario, i tell u wheres the care, concern and love. U care for her because u need her for sexual, mental and spiritual relief, u care to prevent her from leaving u. U show concern for the same cause. Love? well, u love her for giving u all the pleasures. Well, thats about it. We make use of one another, dont we? Its only a matter of whether we agree on the terms thats set upon or not. To walk the path of life together or not. If yes, then the couple stay together, if no, they simply spilt until they find others which has better cause and use to their life.
Now... for friendship... do i need to say more? The above example is more than ample to describe what i may be writing next. The only difference now is that there is probably no sexual relationship involved here. But nowadays, even frens have that kinda relationship. Yea, the world is getting crazy as u grow up. People aint what it seems from what we've read and meet since college. =/ Even decent friends turn to absurd beginnings. Oh well, like Latief always says.. "i try my best" or... "thats life" As for me, i do beg to differ. We can change it and shape it to our desire if we try enough. That is, if we even try at all.
Yea, whatever.
"There is a tavern in town
And there my dear love sits him down
And drinks his wine mid' laughter free
And never, NEVER thinks of me
Fare thee well, for must leave thee
Do not let this parting grieve thee
And remember that the best of friend must part"
posted by Kenzoid at 8:11 am
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